Frequently Asked Questions

Like a traditional sex therapist, we are highly educated and trained sexologists and we offer all of the research-based information that a sex therapist offers. Most, if not all of the erotic education and practice will happen in session. We will use experiential and hands-on tools during sessions. This generates quicker and more lasting change, as well of a sense of mastery for the client.

The following traits are key attributes Somatica Practitioners:

• We believe in personal choice - each person is the expert on their own life
• We are loving and empathetic - we want you to feel safe and heard
• We are accepting and non-judgemental - you can fully show up and share all parts of yourself
• We teach experientially - change happens when you actually have the experience
• We engage intimately - we connect emotionally while maintaining boundaries
• We focus on pleasure - we are based on an ethic of pleasure
• Do no harm - we are always conscious of our impact

• Embodiment - we help people with the felt sense of being inside of your body in the present moment
• Sexuality - we help people embrace their sexuality
• Relationship - we help people have healthy relationships

• Needs/Desires
• Embodiment/Boundaries
• Emotional Awareness
• Self-Awareness of Wounds & Strategies
• Erotic Knowledge and Skills
• Acceptance
• Lovability

• Two-way touch is allowed
• Kissing is not allowed
• Removing clothing is not allowed
• Having oral or genital sex is not allowed
• Sexual or romantic relationships between clients and coaches is not allowed
• Meetings outside of paid sessions  are not allowed